Many people in Toronto and across Ontario set personal goals or resolutions year-round, whether it’s to improve self-care, develop new skills, or create better routines. But while starting a goal can feel exciting, staying consistent over time is often the real challenge.

“A goal is not always meant to be reached; it often serves simply as something to aim at.”

— Bruce Lee

Why Goals Can Be Hard to Stick With

It’s easy to feel motivated at first, but the realities of day-to-day responsibilities, stress, and unexpected challenges can quickly get in the way. When we set ambitious goals without practical steps, we risk burnout, frustration, and giving up entirely. That’s why goal-setting strategies grounded in psychology and real-world practicality are key.

Practical Strategies to Stick With Your Goals

Start Small and Build Gradually
Big goals are motivating, but they can also feel overwhelming. Break larger goals into smaller, achievable steps. For example, instead of “exercise more,” commit to a 10-minute walk three times a week and gradually increase over time. Small wins build momentum and confidence.
Make Goals Measurable
Being able to track progress keeps you motivated. Replace vague goals with specific, measurable actions. For instance:

Instead of: “Practice self-care more”
Try: “Meditate for 10 minutes three times per week”

Create Accountability
Having support helps you stay consistent. Share your goals with a friend, family member, or coach. Consider working with a therapist who can guide you through goal-setting, emotional blocks, and motivation.
Be Flexible and Adaptable
Life is unpredictable. If something isn’t working, adjust your approach rather than abandoning your goal. Flexibility is a sign of resilience, not failure.
Celebrate Victories Along the Way
Acknowledging progress, even small milestones, reinforces motivation. Each achievement is a reminder of your capacity for growth and self-discipline.

How Therapy Can Support Goal Success

Sometimes staying motivated is more than just habit-building—it involves understanding emotional blocks, self-doubt, and patterns that may hold you back. Our team of therapists in Riverdale and East York, Toronto and virtually across Ontario, like Zahra Ahmed, can help you:

Identify practical steps toward goals that fit your lifestyle
Address perfectionism, procrastination, and anxiety that interfere with consistency
Build self-compassion and emotional resilience for long-term success
Maintain accountability and momentum while adapting to life’s changes

Focus on What You Can Control

Even with the best plans, external factors may affect your progress. The key is to focus on actionable steps within your control and give yourself grace when setbacks happen. Consistency doesn’t require perfection. Instead, it’s about showing up, learning, and adjusting as needed.

Sticking with your goals requires strategy, patience, and support. By starting small, measuring progress, celebrating achievements, and seeking guidance when needed, you can maintain motivation and create meaningful, lasting change.

Ready to Achieve Your Goals?

If you’re looking for support with goal-setting, motivation, or personal growth, book a session with Zahra Ahmed or another therapist at Amanda Neves Therapy. We provide guidance and accountability to help clients at our office in the Riverdale community, in East York, Toronto and virtually across Ontario stay on track and reach their full potential.

“I don’t focus on what I’m up against. I focus on my goals and I try to ignore the rest.”

— Venus Williams